So my husband and I just got into a big argument over our daughter and I'm pregnant. He is very attached to his daughter, to the point that I don't think it's healthy. But to each their own. I let him be.

So we have always spoken about having another baby and we have always seemed excited about it. and now that I am, I'm beyond excited as this is my miracle baby. I have pcos and docs told me the likelihood of me having a child on my own was one in a million. But my husband acts like he doesn't care about this pregnancy at all. Which is heartbreaking because I thought we were on the same page.

What makes matters worse is that he shows his daughter so much love and affection but he won't even try to bond with the belly. And I told him, our baby is alive in there, you're supposed to show him love too. He says he doesn't have to show him/her love because they aren't here yet. So I got mad and started telling him that I didn't need him to show me or the baby love, I can do it myself. And he then accused me of being jealous of his daughter because I believe he loves her more.

Advice? I'm just heartbroken that he would think I'm hating on a 3 yr old when all I want is to have him be on board with me during this pregnancy.