Advice

Hi yall so idk if anyoneelse has gone thru this with their husband but my husband is the youngest of all his siblings. And i noticed sometimes his siblings will make comments or even disrespect him. I feel like he will stand up for himself but he will let some things slide because he doesnt want any issues. Which is so understandable, i too will sometimes let things go just to not cause issues. But idk its this thing ive noticed he does where he will let his 2 older brothers wall all over him or even talk to him a certain type of way just because he doesnt want any issues. And like i said i get it. I have older sisters who will get away with making a comment towards me just based off the fact they are my siblings haha but ofc we never take it too far with eachother. Anyways i kindly let my husband know like hey dont let yourself. And he takes it as if im telling him to go fight with his sibling. I had to clear it up and tell him that what i mean is, you are a man now. You wouldnt talk to them that type of way because you respect them right? So teach them to respect you too. And idk maybe its because im his wife so ofc nobody wants to see their spouse treated some type of way. But i have been around his family long enoguh to see the way they treat him. Ofc its not all bad but idk i feel like if he talked to them that type of way they would be mad. Anyways how do yall handle this? There was a time everyone in his family turned against me because they were making some comments towards him and i told him what they said and ofc he got upset. And well now i really try to just mind my business but sometimes i cant stand the way they treat him. And i hate it even more that theres times he thinks i just want him to fight when ive never even told him to fight anyone. He misundersfands me me when i say standing up for yourself and speaking up doesnt automaticallymean a big fight. So most of the time i really just let it go. We are both young so is this something he will figure out by himself over time? Should i just let it go?