No one has volunteered to throw me a baby shower

Hi ladies! Congratulations on your June Babies! My husband and I moved to Texas 2 years ago and are lucky to have a couple of friends in the area. They all know that we suffered through fertility treatments and 3 <a href="">ivf</a>'s to get our little miracle. My mom is throwing me a shower in California in March, but I would love to celebrate our little girl here in Texas around May. When do people typically volunteer to throw you a shower? Is it wrong to ask? FTM and I don't know the do's and don't's showers. If no one volunteers can I do a little lunch and invite my 10 or so girlfriends, I don't need gifts, just want to celebrate? Any advice welcomed. Thanks.