So, advice?

My boyfriend and I are 8w5d, and we had a Mc before in may. We were discussing ideas on how to tell our families. He had the idea of getting blank cards and writing like a letter to out parents, because we know his mom will be excited, but any time I mention anything about anyone's baby my mom shuts down and says she's not old enough.

Anybody think it's a good idea? We'd be there to give them the card in person, but I'm actually really scared to tell my parents...I've always been scared of disappointing them and I'm scared that this will, since I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 23.

I think my mom always says that because she was pregnant at 21 with me.