Too much tongue!!

I've been casually seeing this guy for a while now and we have amazing conversations and banter and I always think things are going really well until he kisses me.....He always goes straight in for the tongue and I really don't enjoy kissing him!!! I feel like im tuck in a fucking washing machine half the time but he seems to love kissing me so much and really enjoy it. There's ansolutely no connection, just mess! Help me! Need advice!