Iv not been brought up in a very religious family, I learnt about Christianity through school and still don't know much about it, I never went to church, only willingly when my grandma would come to visit, I always had this strange personal connection to God, my husband on the other hand was brought up in a catholic family, they weren't strict strict but hebdidngo to church weekly, his parents are a bit pushy about it but they are pushy with everything! Anyways when we first started dating he was into his religion,  he would pray and we wouldnoraybtogether and I really loved, I we didn't get involved in a church as much as i would of liked because we kept moving due to work but now we have settled down a bit I want to find a church and get involved I want to strengthen my relationship with God and strengthen my relationship with my husband through God, I want to join a ministry and volunteer, I would love for him to join me but I get that's not his thing (he's a real homebody) however he is turning athiest, iv had the conversation with him a couple times and he tells me he believes in a God, he believes in a greater being but he doesn't nexus satiny believe in a religion and he doesn't believe God hands you things and that you work for them, he doesn't want to give thanks at all and does not want to pray or go to mass, I'm obviously not going to force anything upon him because I understand his point of view and agree with some of the things he believes in but I really want to experience my new connection if GOd with him since it's such a huge part of my life. What do you ladies think? Anyone else have this problem? I think my problem is I want to do EVERYTHING with him, I have done our entire relationship. I don't know how to feel about it!