DH missing 1st sonogram..

PC • Mama to Cruz 💙 Kaia 💖 and Shaea to come 💗
We are military and they own you so when they say it's time to go it's time to go. I scheduled my first sonogram for 2/2 and he's leaving for an entire month on 1/30. 🙄
I tried moving it but doc isn't available and the base won't take me.  
I'm throwing a fit internally bc I know it's not his fault - but he needs this more than I do. He doesn't feel like I'm preggo bc I'm not showing, therefore he's not excited and is actually more agitated bc it's making him nervous (he's getting out at the end of this year & doesn't yet have a job lined up). I need some support SOMEwhere.. This first sonogram would help 'make it real'. I'll def be showing by the time he gets home! So mad.