My boyfriend & I been together for 3 years know & we have been sexually active ever since then & I think it's time for me to give it a change , I want to be sexy in a way like giving him the best "sex" but I'm just not confident about it .. Plus I really don't know what I could do I've been with him for 3 years & I feel like we just have simple sex ... Not this "we make love " any advice please!