In-laws...

Anybody else's in-laws seem to be getting over bearing...I'm 20 weeks..My parents live 20 min away and are able to help paint and decorate babies room...hubbys parents live 4 hours away and help his brother with tons of stuff but only come visit us 2 times a year...

They were here visiting this weekend and my mom stopped by and asked to see paint swatches I picked out for the babies room which she offered to just come paint on her day off...for the rest of the weekend my father in law wouldn't shut up asking me when they should come back to paint the baby's room..hubby and I politely told him more than once over the weekend we won't need help with that but will need help with the rest of the house once we get new windows and he still insists on coming to paint the baby's room which honestly all weekend they were here he sat and watched tv...I don't know if I'm just being over sensitive or if I have a real reason to be irritated.