Men and being sick

Tirzah • Mom of 2 toddlers...send help🤣
Why is is so hard for men to understand simple concepts?!?! As of last night I was running a 101.5 fever (virus) and I've told him at least a couple of times point blank that I'm getting the sweats and chills and that I DIDN'T want big hugs, since they set off the sweats. Not to mention I'm very wobbly and have very little energy and I need what little I have to stay hydrated and basics like that. Friggin idiot wouldn't stop pestering me until he got one (and a few kisses), not to mention kept hanging off my recliner which 1, still sets off the sweats and 2, jams the back of the recliner way up so I'm forced to sit up straight, when all I wanted was a freakin nap...and then he waits until I'm starving and have to get up and find food to ask if I'm hungry (I can ask or he can ask if I'm hungry but takes forever to get around to it). And then eats half of it before it finally gets to me. And then have to comfort HIM because he's worried because I'm sick...I sent him off grocery shopping this morning and he has overtime for 4 hours tonight, but I don't know what I'm going to do tomorrow. He's threatening to stay home and chill and take care of me all day!😳