I would really like to tell my mum when I go into labour. However my mother in law is the monster in law from hell... And my husband and I don't know what to do. Do we tell her, father in law and sister in law when we go into labour.. If we do they will be waiting at the hospital bombarding us or do we wait until we have bubs to tell them.. It's hard my husband knows how difficult they are, however he is so scared he will be made to feel like the bad one if he chooses to wait and tell them when we have bubs.. We don't know what to do!!!! I really want to be able to let them see us after we have actually spent time with our baby first cause I know how full in they will be