Feel like a complete failure

In December 2014 we decided to try for another baby after having my daughter 2 years previous. Last year in April I suffered quite a bad ectopic pregnancy my tube ruptured and I was rushed in to threatre to which they had to remove my tube. In the surgery they checked my other tube and I was told By the surgeon that it was accidentally damaged on the way out. Leaving my chances of having another ectopic 1in8 rather then 1in10. It took me a long time mentally to get over that. We tried again and in November I fell pregnant with only one tube but misscarried at 6 weeks. We have been trying for over 14 months now and I'm starting to feel like it will never happen and because I can't give my husband another baby and maintain it, I feel like less of a women and it kills me. I'm hoping u ladies may give me some hope or advice to keep me going Xx