Feeling down 😔 words of encouragement?

Question

Earlier today, I surprised my SO with head, but I couldn't make him cum. This happens about 80% of the time. He says it isn't me, that it's his in his mind. However, the fact that I can't please him in this way often makes me feel pretty down, like I'm less of a woman, very unsexy, etc. I've been pretty sad all day since this happened.

I also deal with a lot of sexual insecurities. I feel like I'm not enough for him, not good enough for him, 
my body isn't good enough or doesn't feel good enough, or I can't please him.

I just want to feel sexy, desirable, womanly, feminine, like a sex goddess! What can I do?

Has anyone gone through anything similar or have words of encouragement?

Answer

I have been with my husband for 6 years and have NEVER been able to make him finish like that. He still loves it and I still do it for him, but I have to finish him off a different way.

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I go through it all the time because my hubby can't keep his eyeballs to himself. I don't know if that's the case with yours, but I know how you feel. The only thing I do to try to make myself feel better is to be nice ro.myself, take care of myself, and remember I'm more than how sexual I am. I'm sure you're an awesome person. Hang in there.

Answer

Try asking him for tips on how to make it better, maybe use your hands too or ask him to show you how to masturbate him with your hands and then once you've mastered that the. Move on to oral. Another trick is to insert a finger into his anus and stroke his Gspot (but only talk about that if you're completely comfortable together), he will orgasm very quickly using the Gspot.
I have never been able to orgasm from oral sex because I can't relax enough and feel too self conscious. 
Never feel it's your fault honey as most of the time it is the mental state your partner is in. As long as you are willing to learn and ask him for guiders and like wise he ask you then you'll have a great relationship xx

Feeling down 😔 words of encouragement?

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