Please keep the negative comments. I'm just making a decision and wondering if you did make the decision to have one. How did you decide & what did you feel after ? I understand that this is a very sensitive and personal topic so i am not forcing anyone to say anything. I'm just very emotional right now and would like different points of view and advice. And please don't tell me look at other options because the father is not in aggreeance to sign adoption papers, so I have no other option.