Are you okay with your husband watching porn ?

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Went to use my husbands iPad and when I opened the explorer page, a porn site was already there ? I'm beyond furious but he's saying it was just a virus and that he wasn't looking at it. Any input ? What would you do or say ? We have a 2 month old at home so if he wants to watch that he can get the f*%k out !

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No those don't just pop up unless you're looking it up. I'm against it completely, I don't care what anyone says , I should be the ONLY girl my fiancée sees naked and gets off to. I would be furious also!

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My husband and I are both in agreement that porn has no place in our marriage. Everybody else may not feel that way. I would just have a conversation with him about it and if it happens again, then get angry. For now,  just give him the benefit of the doubt. It may have just been a virus or ad that popped up

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I don't understand what having a 2 month old has to do with it. I have a 4 month old and both my husband and I watch porn as a masturbatory aid.

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Lol all men watch porn ! If he says "I don't" means he watches it twice a day!! 😝 you can do nothing about it . Babies have nothing to do with it .

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I don't care either way. I watch it, and I'm sure my husband does. We've watched it together a few times. And since I've been unable to have sex the last month of pregnancy and won't be able to for the next few weeks or so, I don't really think I can complain if he wants to handle some of his cravings on his own. I also find it sexy to watch him at times so there's that too. Still I understand others not being comfortable with it. It's easy to feel like comparing yourself to those on the screen, and with my current scarred body, it's nowhere near as perfect as those in porn. I just figure if he wants one of those women he can go ahead and get one and the STD's that will inevitably come with them.

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Nah. Me and my SO watch it. If I'm feeling particularly down about my body i can get a little jealous, but no more jealous than when I notice a woman with perkier breasts in cute clothes in public, or when I see a girl with a really nice ass in yoga pants. It's jealousy. I want to look that good. But there will always be women with perkier boobs, nicer butts, longer legs, better hair, etc. I can't keep them from existing or him from seeing them in public. And for that reason (as well as I watch porn too), I don't see anything wrong with it. He chose me. He dotes over me, touches me, compliments me, gets excited to see me naked, and has sex with ME; not them. And i consider him to be a very attractive and smooth guy. He could have other women if he wanted. But chooses me. I have told him to keep it more on the DL since I'm particularly sensitive and sad about my own body and he's  (from what i can tell) not watched in a few months and has been really really supportive and sweet. Taking the time to compliment me, tell me my butt is nice and my boobs get him excited, etc. It's all about communication. Imho.

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I just don't want to know about it or see it!  I'm sure he does

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I think I'd feel a little hurt maybe but that's just because our romance has been non existent since I gave birth

Are you okay with your husband watching porn ?

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