So frustrated

Me and my husband have talked about sex before and who we have had sex with in the past. I've never had a problem talking to him about it. When we have talked about losing our virginity he told me it was some girl he was dating for a little while. Well tonight while watching a sex comedy he makes a comment about him loosing his it to his friend much older sister.... I could care less who he listed it too but I'm pissed that he lied and he doesn't understand why I'm mad. I told him I don't care what u did before we got together I'm just frustrated cause u lied to me about it. Uggg maybe I'm over reacting but I'm just really frustrated and he's just ignoring me. Another thing is I go to bed and he texts me and say "can I come to bed?" Like really you can't just come talk to me your gonna text me.