SO watching "porn" ???

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So today my bf told me he pleasured himself with porn while I was at work. I am ok with that, it never bothered me. I sometimes watch it with him. Anyways when I asked him what video just out of curiosity, he sent me a link to a porn website.
Well turns out he got off to a 15second video of some girl naked filming her body in the bathroom. She was literally not doing anything. Just showing her ass and boobs.
I automatically got mad. And jealous. If he wanted to see something like that why not look at all the pictures I've sent him? Or ask for somethin new? Why does he have to stare at someone over and over until he finished? I'm just upset and idk disgusted with him...
Am I wrong? A part of me feels like I am.. But I'm hurt ... I just don't know/:

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That would hurt my feelings, too. You're not "wrong", if your feelings were hurt.

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This would piss me off too and I'm not against porn

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I think it's a tricky subject. Men & women watch porn to watch sex, two people making it visually, to see naked women and men and get turnef on. That's what porn is. If your SO watches porn, how do you know what's in their head & what they are viewing it for. The sex? The naked women or men? It's hard to know. My husband and I don't watch porn, that's a commitment we've made to eachother in this relationship. But all my other relationships in the past, have had porn involved in some way or another & it's always been a strange area. It's saying yes, let's watch naked people do this intimate act, but don't take it further on your own and watch a naked woman or man alone without me. Because when it gets to that point, it hurts feelings and can cause insecurity or some form of jealousy to arise. Where are the boundaries? It's so tough.

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i think it is the same as porn. you allow him to watcg it but get made of the type lol that is weird. i agree with bf it is same thing. i am against porn in my relationship. to pick and choose his material, is stupid. you ok with porn then let it be

SO watching "porn" ???

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