Anyone else ?

So tonight I got upset because I left my daughter at home with her dad and ONCE AGAIN he was texting me the entire time acting as if she was fussing soooo much that I needed to hurry home. Then when I get home she's not crying, actually she hasn't cried once since I've been home. Anyone else go through this? I can NOT get a freaking break and honestly it is making me question my entire relationship because I never get a break he does Im constantly watching the kids but when he goes out he can enjoy himself I can't even run a damn errand alone without him calling and being lazy and selfish. Then when I speak up about how I feel I can't rely on him he acts like it's not a big deal im so sick of it. A relationship can only survive when both people passionately care about keeping each other happy. Sorry for this long vent Im just fed up that I don't get ANY me time! I can't even go to the nail shop without one of my kids because their father acts like it's just too freaking much!!!!