The reason i ask is its been 6 days since me and my husband have had ANY sorts of bedroom activity it's getting very frustrating now last few times we had a dry patch we talked itold  him my thoughts and insecurities and it got better but its slipping back into that old routine sometimes it could be 2weeks+ !!!! To me thats not normal why doesn't he want to have sex??? The answer i get is im tired or i have an early start.... I turned the internet off last night and suggested we just go to bed this was around 9pm i started to try and have a play he grunts and says he needs to shower WTF???!!! Im so confused and frustrated and upset and just questioning myself does he go elsewhere or is he just genuinely tired? Maybe he's frustrated about not conceiving yet i dont know but this cant go on..... Does this happen to anyone else?