Boring spouse.

My spouse is soo boring he never wants to do anything its annoying we have 2 kids were young let's take them to the zoo the park or something no he wants to sleep and watch sports all day and exspects us to do the same ugh.. And then today valentines day I ask him if we can go have fun with the kids he said he will do anything I want so I chose and of course everything I pick is a no go . I mean I had to beg him the other night to go out to dinner at least for a early valentine sense he can make an effort to go spend the day with his mom or the fact he handed her 200$ for valentines day which she bragged about on fb but he can't even make an effort to go out to eat with me and I even offered to pay ugh. I'm soo irritated its not like I'm asking for the world I'm jus asking for some time come hang out wake up geez. Sorry about that I had to vent I feel like I been putting up with this for way to long and being way to nice about it