Am I crazy orrrr

I'm only posting on here because I want a complete outsiders opinion. Me & my fiancé have only been engaged for two months & we've lived together for a little longer than that. He's told me to get all my stuff and leave probably 3 times. The most recent time (last week) I actually got all my stuff & put it in my car to go. The reason was I didn't tell him my friend went with me to volunteer somewhere. He wanted to talk about it that afternoon so I came over & he noticed all my stuff was gone & proceeded to get angry that I would actually get my stuff & go without fighting for "us". But I don't think it's right to be kicked out because I spent time with my friend. He knows this person so it's not like it was a guy or something. But anyways the whole issue turned completely to my fault because I "don't care" about us enough to fight for us. But I feel controlled. I catch myself saying a lot that "you said I was allowed to". I just don't feel like that's something I should have to say regarding the person I wanna marry. I'll be on the phone with friends before he gets home & im nervous Hell get angry or interrogate me so I'll get off the phone. And another example of things he does is last night. We had like 3 friends over and he asked when I got the socks I was wearing. They were cute & new. I was like I just got them & he goes "you bitch" like pretty loud. I just felt an awkward silence like everyone was wondering why he said that. He says he's joking when he says stuff like that but I literally feel like he does it so much (every night basically, just a different situation). I just feel like this could be signs of a controlling relationship. I always feel like I'm walking on eggshells trying to please him. I wouldn't know how to get out of this even if I wanted to.