Terrible 2 week visit

Jane
So today was my last 2 weeks visit. It was terrible. Not only did they rush the whole appointment so midwife could go to lunch earlier.,. But she wouldn't even allow me to have time to ask any of my questions.
Also, my pee looks "NASTY", I guess it looks to have protein, red and white blood cells in it.... I asked if I could have my cervix checked, but I guess I can't have that checked til I'm 39 weeks... I'm only 36 weeks 4 days.... 
I'm having a lot of pressure and she just said its normal. 
She measured my stomach, and said I'm measuring at 32 weeks? She's been wrong on this before, my ultrasound shows my baby boy is only a week behind we found out 3 weeks ago. 
I was called a worry wart, and not to be so scared. 😫😭 it's kind of difficult to stay calm when this is my first pregnancy and I don't know what's normal and what's not. Ugh idk what to do. I cried to my husband about it. They made me feel like I'm stupid, and rushed me so much I couldn't even get a question in!!