For the past four days I've been experiencing extremely bad headaches, off and on blurry visions, tingling all over my body, what I believe feels like high blood pressure, dizziness, swollen hands and feet, and being very nauseous. I've been on bed rest my whole pregnancy due to pain or bleeding if I do anything which the doctors couldn't figure out why it was happening and at my 20 week appointment I found out my daughter is under weight..which doesn't make sense because I take prenatal vitamins and eat and drink things with lots of proteins. Now at 22 weeks I'm having all the signs my mom had when she was pregnant with me and ended up with preeclampsia. This is my first pregnancy, I'm in my teens, and preeclampsia runs in the family..those three things are some things that make the risk of getting preeclampsia even higher than the risk I would of had without the age, first pregnancy, and family history. Unfortunately my obgyn is so awful that if I mention me feeling like I'm at risk for that they completely deny it and such. I was actually brought into a room without my boyfriend on my 20 week appointment and the doctor basically b*tched me out for going to the ER the weekend before for having a lot of abdominal pain and having false contractions that I thought could of been real ones.. this is my first pregnancy so if I have pain like I was having I'm not sure if its real or fake..you really think the doctor would be nice and give me a break. Also, this is the same obgyn that refuses to do a c section when it comes time that the baby can be born. Reasoning I want, Well not want, I need to have the c section, is I have herpes and the breakouts never really go away and even if I'm not having a breakout the baby can still get herpes coming out naturally. In Maine its against the law for them to refuse a c section but this dr clearly doesn't care. Anyways after this long a** paragraph or story..what I'm saying is I feel as though I should go to the hospital to find out what is wrong but if I go and they say nothing is wrong like they always say or if I go to my obgyn and get b*tched at again..she's said before I need to stop crying wolf..then I'm going to lose my shit and start crying because I just feel so alone and the people that get paid and went to school to learn about this stuff are basically denying me. Its so frustrating. I just don't know what to do. And on top of everything else I'm freaking out because ever since 18 weeks I've had the most active baby ever and these past four days I havent felt her move once. I'm so scared guys.