Does virginity really matter?

My best friend knows that I have been fingered eaten out ect. Then she asked me what's the point of having your virginty anymore aren't you just a tease. Honestly That made me a little upset she called me a tease but then I bought what's the point of being a virgin.  I still am but any opioms is being a virgin matter and do you think I'm a tease for not giving my bf my v card?