Lonely wives?

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Ladies,

I'm reaching out on a personal level. This glow community is positive and helpful. I take my ovulating Windows seriously due to the fact my husband is gone every other 3 weeks. I am frusterated and need support from women who understand me. I can't compare to a woman who has a man in the army. Because that is not my story. When I develop a pity party, I have to remind myself that I can't complain. I'm angry and sad. I need advice from this community. I count my blessings but when my husband is  away, I'm lonely and looking into the next fertile window when he will be present. I can wait and wait but my patience is aggravated. Advice ladies .. Before I loose my mind 😥 I need to accept my story and not to be mad that I have been trying. I feel such a lonely void. And I feel like a baby will be the missing piece to my void. Xoxo please respond 💗

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My ex used to be like that but he was out partying, in your case, try preseed for the next time to up your chances. But im shure pregnancy wont be easy alone. If you feel like it might be to much for you maybe get a dog, or some kind of pet that will help you feel better and keep you company :)

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Reese, if you have been tracking your fertile days through opks or this app, could you travel to your husband for those couple of days while he is away? Good luck

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Aww bless you. Why don't you travel to him? Surprise him. Don't feel bad. Things happen in their own time. I know the feeling of having a void and wanting a child. My DH and I struggled for years and it was all in God's timing. It will happen. Have faith. The next thing you know you'll miss the late Saturday mornings, you'll miss being able to be spontaneous and meet friends whenever you like, you'll miss going shopping FOR YOURSELF, you'll miss having time and money for your hobbies. Enjoy every phase in your life. Everything happens in its own time

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I feel your pain, in a way. 
My boyfriend works for the railroad and works crazy/looong hours. When he's home, he sleeps. His job is very important, more than me sometimes.
I get lonely and feel like I have no one. I feel the same

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It will get better. Try support groups in your area like meetup.com.

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My husband is a fiber optic splicer, we live in NY but he works out of state for weeks at a time in Kentucky, Tennessee, ohio, Pennsylvania, Virginia, etc. I started keeping track of my ovulation before we started officially trying to concieve so that way I knew exactly when it would happen. I got pregnant the first month but had a early miscarriage, the second month I got pregnant again and this time I am now 32 weeks pregnant. We planned his arriving home around my ovulation time. As for the lonely part with him being gone, I already have a three yr old who keeps me very busy, but its still lonely because my husband is gone. Two different kind of loves and affection.. I just spend a lot of time with my mom to try and do things to keep my mind off it til he gets home.

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Ladies please comment . Desperate

Lonely wives?

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