Trying to figure out if I'm out of the race this month! I came off the pill in October after 11 years, had three cycles, 25, 38, 35 days. Now on cycle day 40 and no signs of AF or BFP! Taken numerous pt's. Not sure whether to give up or keep on hoping!! We bd regularly throughout whole cycle so all bases covered. AF was due 19th but glow keeps moving dates back, now says 23rd. Had light spotting on 8&9 of February. I don't do temperature tracking or OPKs so don't know date of ovulation! Not sure what to think!!!!