Adulting is exhausting....

Now my husband and I have never really had a good sexual relationship, he has no sex drive and enjoys porn (not addicted,just has no interest in sex,with anyone). I'm now 6 months pregnant and craving a sex life and some want and effection, my husband has barely touched me since conceiving but that's not much of a surprise there (yes I have talked to him,he feels bad,never makes any effort to change though).

I would totally be on board for an affair but after talking care of a full time job,household and pets and family affairs and being pregnant....I'm just to lazy to make more sneaky plans with another man and have to execute them! Lol. So most nights I sext my would be mister and fall asleep with my vibrator. Lol. Adulting is not what I thought it would be. But I'm very grateful for what I have! Good health, good home, decent marriage (even w/out the sex) and more then enough money to fulfill our needs and wants!