When I was pregnant the first time I was totally sure it was a girl, people used to look at my belly and body and tell me "that's a girl" and I was so glad to hear that, I totally forgot that there also was chances to be a boy. The day of the sonogram when I found out it was a boy I felt so disappointed, and sad and cried all day long, but at the same time I felt such a bad mother and so guilty about feeling that way. That was very painful for me but that disappointment only lasted for like 2 days, then I was happy and in love with my baby boy. After 8 years I'm pregnant again, and first of all i wish and pray to have a healthy baby no matter the sex that's the most important, but I can't lie to myself I really want a girl so bad. I find my self looking for baby girl outfits, names, and furniture on the internet, and I even have dreams with a baby girl on my arms. I'm trying so hard to stop focusing on the baby's gender and not getting obsessed like the first time. I need to have my mind open and ready to accept what God has for me that could be a boy or a girl and enjoy the moment when I find out. Anybody getting obsessed with the baby's gender?