How i became pregnant with baby #2....stay positive ladies!

Going to try and keep the story short. I see a lot of women getting discouraged TTC. I know I did. I was on the depo shots for about 9 months. Three months later I finally got Af and we were trying.....for three years. August 2015, I got a little depressed. There was a lot going on and things got hard money wise. Plus my husband's brother was getting married so it was hard for us to focus on trying for baby. I remember a few times I cried thinking something was wrong with me. My husband had to kinda push me to have sex knowing I would be mad at myself later if I stopped trying. We even had sex that month the day at AF ended which isn't something we normally do. When September 17th came I drank at the wedding and felt sick afterwards. Didn't think nothing of it. During Aug and Sept I didn't bother taking test. ovulation or preganacy test. End of Sept, my daughter(4) went to climb on me but instead she stopped, looked at my belly, and said " there's a baby in your tummy" I thought it was funny. Around Oct 1st, I had a dream I told my husband the next time we take a test it was going to be positive. I woke up and thought "why not". I took a test. Instantly it came back positive. I almost fainted. It was when I least expected it that it happened. When I was ready to give up forever.

I knowing what's its like to be trying and feel like its not going to happen. I used to hate when people say , " just stop stressing and it will happen." Honestly, when I focused on something other than TTC it happened. Don't give up ladies but don't over stress it. Its a hard and long journey but so worth it in the end.