Crazy mother in law

Amanda
I am at my breaking point with my mother in law. I had my daughter in December and she is the first grandchild and girl in the family on my husbands side so I understand the excitement but man, does his mother push my buttons. Ever since my daughter was born, my MIL does whatever she wants whether or not my husband and I say no. She will not come to our house ( we live in the in law apartment at my parents) because it's not our actual house so she wants us to constantly bring our daughter to her. She has serious control issues and is always asking my husband to go over and mow the grass or shovel their driveway when she has a husband and another son who lives with her who could do it. Now, the thing that pissed me off the most was last night. I told her on Monday we were getting our daughter a specific toy for Easter and she called last night and said she went out and bought it after I said no. Am I wrong for being mad? I did tell he no we were getting it and she did it anyway.