School?

sarah

I'm not sure where I should put this but I'll put it here. I'm in the UK. My son T is 5 and has been picked on by another little boy I'll call him D for the purposes of not giving away names. Anyway this has been going on from T was 3 in nursery. We have been to the teachers so many times, headteacher too. So anyway, last Friday D punched T (T refuses to hit back, he is a mostly kind and loving little boy) we spoke to his classroom assistant after school as T didn't want to speak to Mrs S (his actual afternoon teacher). The assistant was lovely, she spoke to him kindly and said he needs to tell someone straight away but she will speak to everyone on the carpet on Monday and talk about kind hands. T seemed happy and I said thanks. Next minute Mrs S (afternoon teacher) comes over and snapped "what's going on here" so I tell her.. Who then snapped "it didn't happen.. I was with them all afternoon and T + D were NOT beside each other" (this may be the truth but it hasn't stopped D from coming over and hurting T before) so I say "Mrs S, this hasn't stopped it happening before, this year or last. We only came to say what had happened" so then she gets really pissed off and grumps at T "you were not next to D were you? No you were not" at this point I'm seriously biting my tongue and my son looks so upset but refuses to talk. So I say "again Mrs S this has not stopped it before, an example last week in the line D came out of it and stood next to T which you were not aware of and kicked him" she then says "it didn't happen" I looked at my son and he was upset so I walked off with my kids. I spoke to the head teacher about the lack of respect for myself and T. Who said she will have a word with Mrs S. Where do I go from here? I'm beyond fed up. Its really pissing me off.

I have tried seeing what the policy is on this but the link doesn't work.. I'm not happy. I want to pick my son up at lunch time so he doesn't have to be near that Moody cow this afternoon!! Any advice is hugly appreciated 💜💗💙