So my boyfriend has a 7 year old daughter, whose life he has just recently gotten back into. Him and her mom have been apart for 5 years but she is still stuck on him like glue. When she found out I was pregnant she was drunk and had an "episode". Ever since she's been dangling his daughter in front of him and playing games. One day he's a grate father and the next she refuses to let him see her.

Because he hasn't had the opportunity to be in her life fully he is afraid that because he has no custody rights things will get worse. On Valentine's day she found out me and him had reservations and plans and at the last minute said he could take her for the weekend. This weekend was his birthday and the same thing happened.

I haven't seem my boyfriend since the 19th. He puts her first which is great but it's starting to affect me. I have to be careful what I post on and social media site because she WILL (somehow) come across it and blow it all out of proportion.

I feel like this pettiness will never end and my and our baby will always be second.