Why does my boyfriend hate it when i grab his butt... Even in private he doesn't like it..?

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Every time I even touch it he gets instantly serious.. Does anyone else hate this or have this issue

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Me!
My boyfriend HATES it when I touch his bum, in any kind of situation. Which is annoying, because it's cute as hell.

"The bum is sacred" he says.

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I definitely know what you mean. My ex was a baseball player (I mean, who doesn't love baseball butts?). And I, being an equestrian, I guess have somewhat of a booty. He'd always be like "the booty is mine", and when I'd return the favor he'd be like "No". Haha it's all preferences I guess. Some guys just think it's weird if girls are into their butts. But I'm the human version of Tina Belcher from Bob's Burgers so. Yea. 😂

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My boyfriends butt is really ticklish 😂 we were best friends for ages before we started dating so I've been around when he's been with other people, he absolutely hated his ex touching his booty but I get full access 👍

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My boyfriend kind of gets uncomfortable but I tell him it's no different to when he does it to me. I just keep doing it and he's getting over it

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My boyfriend is the same exact way... He will touch my bum or smack it but the moment I do it to him he gets serious. I think it's cause of the thought of butt play

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Some guys are super protective of their buttholes so they don't want you touching their butt cheeks either. Be vocal about the fact that you're not going to touch his rectum, you just like his cheeks and maybe he'll come around to it. But maybe he won't, and that's okay too.

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My boyfriend like it when I touch his butt, touch it, spank it during sex and what ever I wanna do with it! We freaking like that 😄😄

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my boyfriend gets really weirded out when I touch his butt, I think it's just a guy thing 😂

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My boyfriend has this glorious ass and he'll occasionally let me touch it, but too much and he's weirded out. I think it's just because it gives the implication of butt play, which isn't something he's into receiving🙈

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Respecting the principles of consent and bodily autonomy, anybody who says they don't like being touched somewhere should not be touched their again by their partner. A lot of the people in these comments need to leave their boyfriend's butt alone, not laugh off breaking him down over time.

Why does my boyfriend hate it when i grab his butt... Even in private he doesn't like it..?

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