New to ttc, feeling overwhelmed! Help?

How do you keep things fun and sexy in bed? I am feeling a bit overwhelmed with ttc. Between basal body temperature, cervix position, mucus, pre-seed lube, sex every other day, everyday during ovulation, vitamins, and research I am going a bit crazy and it's only been one month! It's starting to feel like a chore and I don't want to dread or stress about any of these, it's supposed to be a happy time! Any advice?