A bit annoyed..

Since I found out I am pregnant, and my partner and I started telling everyone, only three people said congratulations to both of is, and the rest only said it to him.. I know it's stupid, but it's starting to annoy me, I am the one carrying our baby, the one going through being sick, in pain, ect.. And he doesn't even give my back a rub, but his the one who gets all the congrats about it.. I find it super annoying.. Has anyone else had this, and help me try and get over the fact