Your MIL was at the hospital the day you were getting discharged and once she saw you sign the release forms she took your baby from your arms and took your diaper bag and started looking through it and dressed your baby ? My MIL did that she had said "eat" because my hospital food was there now I know people may say she was just trying to help but I don't see it that way at all, why did she all of a sudden care if I ate or not ? When we were at the hospital after I gave birth she would always come and bring my husband food or ask him what he wants to eat but never once asked me if I wanted anything. She was always mean to me when I was pregnant and all of a sudden started being nice the last 2 months and The day we were getting discharged she also was on the phone with her daughter telling her to bring a blanket and asking my husband to bring the car seat which he already knew but her plan was to/ she was thinking I was going to go stay at her house yeah right! We had our own home to go to and I did not want anyone's help. I knew her plan because I had over heard her talking crap about my family and I asking my husband where he was going to stay and also because I had my uncle pick me up and my husband's car was where we had left it he never moved it so they expected me to go home with his mom. His sister mom and my husband were gonna be in the car plus my baby and I and that was one of the things I never wanted I wanted it to be just my baby my husband and I.