so i was really really looking forward to going to prom with my boyfriend this year.. this would be our first prom (junior prom) and you know how you plan things in your head and just want everything to go perfect and your plan is just so perfect so you get anxious and really excited will i did.. i found a dress found shoes and everything i know how i want my makeup and hair but all of a sudden my bf tells me he doesn't want to go so now im like wtf really dude? i was soo excited for us to go yk like it would really be lit af.. so his excuse was that he just wants to want til next year and some shit about he doesn't want to ruin the moment which i dont even understand what that means.. so i was just like ok cool well ill go with someone else ig.. so now he's having a pissy fit and im confused bc you don't want to go but you don't want me to go either like no.. and i really dont want to go without him i really just told him i would go with someone else to make him jealous and be like no bae imma go with you.. but he didnt soo idk what to do bc i refuse to not go but i also dont want to go with anyone else and i want us to have a good time together he just doesn't understand😩.. what do i do!!??🙄