So when I was younger I went through the struggle of self harm and i have really bad scars on my upper arm/ shoulder. I'm getting married in a year and of course I've been looking at dresses. But a lot of dresses I would love to wear on my special day don't have little sleeves to cover the scars and I'm to self cautious to think about not covering them up. My fiancé says he loves every part of me including my scars but I just don't want his family to judge me or think there's something wrong with me.