But you ladies offer good advice & this is an embarrassing topic. I am 25 weeks pregnant and have been happily married 3 years. My husband has a new job and has made friends with a female colleague. She is nice & I know he wld not cheat on me. Seems like it's more of an emotional connection and it's beginning to piss me off. We went on a tour this past weekend that I told my husband to choose, we come back and I found out she picked the trip and came along. He gets home from work and is always on his phone messaging her. He told me that she said, my husband is like her gay best friend...mind u he is not gay just married! And my husband says oh well she's dating any way. If I did this to him he wldnt like it! What do I do? I brought up that I thought they seemed a little too close, and me being pregnant (especially on that tour) feel like I got zero special treatment from him. I woke up last night from a dream where he was buying her jewelry! It's crazy bc she isn't that attractive, but the emotional bonding getting to me. Should I allow this to go on, or Is he in the wrong? I have to add that sometimes they even go to movies together! I don't like his movie so low and behold she goes.