Anyone not dilated but have good delivery?

So with my first daughter at 38+6 I was 4cm 90%, and had her 6 days later. My water broke, immediately started contractions hard and fast. She was born 7 1/2 hours later. Today I'm 38+5 and only 1cm 80%. I know every labor/deliver is different, I'm just looking for some reasurrance, I guess. Anyone not dilated much but still had a (reasonably) good labor/delivery without needing pitocin? I'm totally fine if she just wants to bake for a couple more weeks, I'm just worried that this labor will take forever now. Or maybe I'm just having irrational fears because my hormones are crazy.. Hm..