Honest to husband about number of partners? I told my husband 8 when we first started dating but its actually 14. Now i feel bad.

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Never never never tell your SO your #. It can only lead to drama. It doesn't matter if your number is high or low it invites judgment and paranoia. My fiancé of 5 years has no clue what my number is and I have no clue about his. He could have been with 100 women, I would never know. As long as ha only with me now, that's all that that matters. I think the subject should be left alone and you can let him assume whatever he wants about your past sex life. It's no longer relevant to your relationship so why worry about it.

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Honestly, the past is the past and he shouldn't ask a question he doesn't want the answer to. You aren't obligated to tell him at all.

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He's your husband and if you want a healthy marriage you ARE obligated to tell him. Being dishonest with your spouse from day one is starting your marriage on a lie.

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My husband never asked my number and after 18 yrs together I'm not obligated to tell him now.  I don't think I would have been truely honest though because he knows I was a wild one back in the day ..

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Wouldn't you want him to be honest with you?

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You don't have to tell him. It's just a number and it doesn't and will never define you or your relationship.

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I have been with my husband 5 and a half years and that's somthing we don't discuss mainly because I do have a past and I was his first so he would rather not know that's what he told me

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Eh, you shouldn't have lied but there's no point bringing it up now that you're married... what's done is done move on. It's not like you cheated on him

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My husband was my best friend before we were ever together so I knew his number and he knew mine. I just make fun of it now because he was in the navy over seas so yeah... lol  it isn't a big deal, would it change you two being together if he new it was a few more? Probably not. I wouldn't worry about it.

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This is something you should have been honest about at the beginning of the relationship, unless he asks you about it again you could cause a lot of problems by bringing it back up. If he does ask though he has a right to know. How can you have a truthful and honest relationship when you can't even be honest about how many people you've slept with?

Honest to husband about number of partners? I told my husband 8 when we first started dating but its actually 14. Now i feel bad.

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