Should I be careless?

Question

Is pretending to not care about things that involve my boyfriends ex wife or son better my relationship or make things worse?

Answer

Depends what you're not caring about. You should care about things that involve his son because his son is part of him and his life. That's a package deal.

Answer

You should care... I'm care about my fiancé but guess what??? Every time I give my opinion in what in the best way he can handle all the situations with his x about the money and stuff he's paying for her and his daughter he just doesn't give a fuck.. He get mad and the stupid here it's me because I love him so much that I want the better for him..and I hope that h can realize what is doing bad.. But I think he loves having 2 jobs for cover all that and you know what's the funny thing?? Stupid me That I been trying to help him don't spend more than I can and cancelling my appointments and also a prescription that I need so he can have more money to pay his car  and all this thinking that he was saving money for us .. And yes I always I finish crying in the bathroom because of that.. And it seems he doesn't care..so as you can see sometimes is better to care about and sometimes is better to don't give a fuck.. Sorry for the bad words ☺️

Answer

I don't think pretending not to care is the answer. You're allowed to feel however you feel. Just talk to him about why you are feeling that way and come to some kind of understanding about it.

Should I be careless?

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