Oct '18 Babies

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Weighted blanket

I’ve been wanting to get a weighted blanket for my toddler for awhile now. Anyone have any brands they recommend? Also how many lbs should I get? TIA!

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Last reply Dec 14, 2021

Em

Following- I’ve thought about this too. Was tossing up between a weighted blanket or a weighted toy for my son to use in his quiet spot he goes to have a break.

Anyone else struggling with their 3yo trying to ‘control’ their younger sibling?

We have a 10 month old that I’m sure he is still getting used to- a sibling is a huge change. Sometimes he is so kind to her but so often he is trying to control everything she does. She can’t crawl certain places, play with most of the toys, she can’t be first to have anything (dinner, a drink, get in the car, etc.). It is exhausting! Is anyone else in the same boat?

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Last reply Dec 10, 2021

L

Yes, but it gets better! My son is 16 months and has been sticking up for himself now so my 3 year old is wayyy nicer to him now 😂

Big sister 💜🧡

My October baby is a big sissy ❤ my heart is so full!🥰

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Last reply Dec 9, 2021

Ki

Congrats! October 2018 and November 2021 siblings here too!!!

How does your child play with their peers?

Given everything that went on with covid, my child hasn’t had a lot of opportunities to play with kids his own age so I’m not sure if he’s a bit behind socially. How does your 3 yo play with/interact with other kids? Is it mostly parallel/playing alongside? Do they do some minor interactions like showing their peers things or making comments/asking their peers questions? Are they taking turns or actually working together? Do you need to prompt them to say hello, etc.? Thanks!

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Last reply Dec 5, 2021

Ca

We started my daughter in a weekly soccer class yesterday, her time is actually a super small class there's only 2 other kids there with 2 coaches. One coach thought she was shy because she may have expected more kids to play with but I told her she's never really had consistent friends to play with yet, and the other coach said he's noticed the difference even in kids her age since covid has kept them from having playmates at younger ages, he thinks she'll eventually warm up and interact with them more eventually but for right now she usually observes and never approaches other kids when they're playing.

Medicine

What do you use to give your little one medicine?? I’m tired of buying syringes, their markings just rub off!

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Last reply Nov 13, 2021

KC

Syringes, the cup, or the squeeze dropper.

For those that celebrate Christmas…

What are you getting your kids? What traditions/activities are you going to do this year?

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Last reply Nov 26, 2021

As

We are more of a Halloween family so xmas is pretty basic. We do Santa photos, decorate cookies, put up the tree, play out in the snow(We always build a fort with a slide) My hubby's family is big into party's so we have those to go to as well. As for gifts we are very minimalist so we usually follow the 4 gift rule; need, read, want, wear.

Bed time

What time does your little one go to bed?

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Last reply May 4, 2022

Ma

Wooooooow Y’all Are Some Great One’s I AM JEALOUS! My Oldest Shes A Vampire 😂😂This Girl Would Be Up Till 6am. She Doesn’t Do Anything But Watches Her Lil Tv Show Or Climb In Bed With Mommy & Daddy Til She Dozes On Her On. My Youngest That’s My Napping Buddy! WE SLEEPS AND LAXES ALL DAY 😂😂Gots No Problems With Her Going To Sleep. It’s Totally My Fault. Their Babies & I’m A SAM So I Let Them Sleep When Their Tired 🤷🏾‍♀️… I Mean I Send Them To Their Bed/Room But As Far As Sleeping, It’s On Their On😓

Sleep Deprived

I’m currently still nursing (although I don’t think he’s getting much) my 3 year old throughout the day and night. He isn’t taking any naps during the day and he will only sleep in his room a few hours at a time (we have to sneak him in there after he’s sleep). He nurses himself to sleep and NEVER goes to sleep on his own. He’s literally up every 2-3 hours at night, nursing and I can’t take it anymore 😵‍💫. He learned to open his door shortly after his 2nd birthday, so we have no way of keeping him in his room. I’m so desperate to 1) have him sleeping throughout the night 2) have him sleep in his room and 3) have him go to sleep on his own, without nursing. Note— this didnt just start, hes ALWAYS been this way and I’ve always been fighting this.

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Last reply Nov 2, 2021

KC

I think the best option is going to be having someone else take over bedtime. You leave the room and refuse to nurse him. When he wakes up, do not nurse him, send someone else in to get him back down. He wakes up cause he’s used to it and knows you’ll feed him. It’s going to be tough but that’s the only way. You’re just going to have to be firm and say no. I’m not against screen time, my son lays down and we turn his tv on for a 30min timer and as soon as it goes off, he goes to sleep. We’ve been doing the same thing for years. We stopped bedtime nursing and this is exactly how we did it. Adding in a sippy of water instead may help.

Reoccurring UTI issues

My poor girl is fighting another UTI I think even though she just got off of a week of antibiotics the other day. Anyone else dealt with this? She absolutely refuses to potty train right now and has held her pee for 24 hours before. We don’t use soaps. I use alcohol free baby wipes. She’s drinking a ton. I just feel lost.

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Last reply Nov 4, 2021

Je

My daughter had this same issue the last two months. Went through 2 rounds of antibiotics. Getting an ultrasound done this month to make sure there’s nothing wrong with her kidneys or other issue. I have a family history of frequent UTI’s so wondering if it’s genetic. 🤷🏻‍♀️

an

Fully potty trained but he still wears pull-ups at night just in case, although he hasn’t had an accident in over a month now.

Let me see all those beautiful babies from October 2018!!!

Happy 3rd birthday to my lil caring monster. He has changed our lives so much. Growing up to be so caring. But he is also my lil rule break.

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Last reply May 11, 2022

Ki

Faith…

Three!

Avery turned three on October 11, 2021! Her sister turned one today. Time sure flys!

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Last reply Oct 19, 2021

Em

Happy birthday, love the cake!

Arielle turned 3 yesterday!! 🥲♥️

From 1 to 3 years loved!!!😩💖

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Last reply Oct 15, 2021

Em

Happy birthday!

Birthday pancakes! We celebrated her birthday a month ago because of little sister being born 3 days ago.

Birthday pancakes! We celebrated her birthday a month ago because of little sister being born 3 days ago.
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Last reply Oct 12, 2021

Em

Happy birthday!

Regression

Is there some sort of 3 year old regression no one told me about? Bub had his regression at 2.5 and now I feel like he’s regressing again. Or I’ll just say I put him down and about 10 minutes later he’s up crying and sometimes he’s actually still asleep but like crying. It’s so frustrating! My 4 month old sleeps better than him as of now 🙃

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Last reply Oct 12, 2021

Ch

Thanks ladies for the support! Glad to know I’m not alone!!!

🎂🥳💜

We celebrated our girl today!! I am so in love with this little lady! It kills me that she'll be 3 on Tuesday 😭😍 I don't know where the time went!!

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Last reply Oct 10, 2021

Ch

What a sweetheart!!! Looks so grown up! 🥺 hope she has an amazing birthday!!! 🥳

My little guy is 3 tomorrow!

I can’t believe our October babies are turning three! He has such a personality and loves Halloween. He wanted a Halloween party said it’s going to be spooky. Lol loves this kid!

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Last reply Oct 10, 2021

Ch

Happy Birthday buddy!!!

Increase in toddler’s appetite

I wonder if my now 3 year old is going through a growth spurt? Lately he’s had such a huge appetite! He already ate an entire banana and 3 scrambled eggs this morning. Yesterday he ate a large amount as well! I love that he has an appetite, because he used to be just a picker. Oh and some days he eats hardly anything but the days he does eat, he goes to town! Anyone else deal with this?

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Last reply Oct 10, 2021

Em

Yes, my son has days where he eats a ton and I don’t know where he puts it! Then some days he’ll eat a lot less.

Gideon is 3 today!!!

Where in the world did the time go?! Can’t believe my baby is 3! Started the day off with birthday balloons, a few fun little gifts and little man helped me make chocolate Chip pancakes!!! We sang him happy birthday and we also are going to do a few fun things this week including a family bonfire and a couple other fun outings this week. 🎉🙏😃🍩💜🦖🦕

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Last reply Oct 4, 2021

Em

Happy birthday!

My October baby is 3 today 😭

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Last reply Oct 3, 2021

Wy

Happy birthday little guy🎂🎂🎂