I actually feel for my other half 🤦🏻‍♀️❤️

So my other half booked for us plus my sister to go and see my favourite band, the 1975! Frigging excited!!!! So anyway, my other half was speaking to my sister earlier on there own and he came in with the right ump after I herd some very raised voices!Even though I shouldn’t even know nothing about this…. But they’ve then come in and she’s proceeded to argue with him and I’ve then found out!!!!! So he was going to propose!!!!! to one of my favourite songs, at the 1975 concert. And he basically was asking my sister to help plan it, help him pick out a ring ect which she should feel honoured to do, considering how close the pair of them are and how well they have a brother and sisterly relationship! So she’s kicked of 🤣 over the fact that she’s already third wheeling, that shes single and she don’t want to watch him go down on one knee and make her feel even more single. And by the sounds of it she’s joking….. but she actually got her keys and drove off, which is kind of pathetic seeing she’s 19 years old 😂 And there’s me just sat there hearing her argue to him and blow the whole plan out the window to what I wasn’t supposed to hear! All he asked was her to help him. And now she has ruined the surprise which he planned hence why he booked the concert for the valentines night show! I actually feel for him. And now I’m upset that she’s ruined the surprise which I wasn’t supposed to know 🤦🏻‍♀️I want to laugh at her for the reasoning….but I’m also annoyed she’s done that to him! God. Little sisters, who would want them 🤣🤣

Why do i always get dogged

Why dont anyone ever love me ? I get onto relationshipand i love really hard i will go the extra mile for you.... but i nver get tht in return...

Pregnant after a D&C

Hello beautiful ladies, question for all of you. I had a miscarriage and a d&c back in December of last year. Me and the hubby have been TTC for about 8 months. How long did it take you to get pregnant after a miscarriage?

Suggestions

So my husband & I have been trying to conceive for awhile now we got pregnant but miscarried back in 2021… any advice on what we could use that’ll help fertility ( naturally)

Husband alcoholic

What would you do when you have husband alcoholic? Don’t come back home for 3 days because drinking and do that every month I would like to know what would you girls do ?

Made a wrong move. I need to let it out

My husband and I have been generally happy. Though there are of course times that I wish he’d listen more of be more sensitive. But we’re overall happy.I’ve been insecure about my weight gain though so I haven’t been really confident about myself lately. I don’t really check my husbands phone. Haven’t done it and we’ve been married for over 10 years. But for some reason I felt the urge to check his messages on his iPad for the first time last night. I saw him flirting/mild sexting with a girl. Though I could tell that it didn’t mean anything but I needed to hear that he doesn’t meet up with her.. that it was really nothing. I knew confronting him and telling him I went through his iPad will make him mad but I went for it cause I needed to hear him say that it was nothing and that he’d stop doing it. Unfortunately, I was right about him getting mad. He did say it was nothing but he also wants a divorce cause he feels betrayed with what I did. I apologized for what I did but he still left. I’m not sure what I want to hear. Im not even sure if I regret doing what I did but I know it was wrong and I apologized for it. But is it also wrong to feel that I deserve someone who’d forgive me for what I did… someone who won’t leave me like that and throw away our marriage just like that…. I just really hope he’d want to make it work.. but I’m also really scared that this is it

What does everyone think

My other half has been so different lately not cuddly nothing not a kiss don’t sleep in the same bed just absolutely nothing. I’m pregnant with our second and today I look over at him his got his hands down his trousers smiling at his phone. I asked who he is talking to and he said it’s a friend but I don’t know my gut saying different. He won’t let me look at his phone. I don’t know his passwords his changed it. What do you guys think

Is your partner more concerned with money?

Hi everyone, My question- is/was your partner more concerned with finances after or before the babies born or were they concerned for you and the baby & helping you with the baby?Backstory, my bf and I have been together for two years known each other for 12 years (dated in hs) and he has two children from a previous relationship (same mother for both children) and this is my first child with him. We weren’t prepared to have a baby and it definitely came at a surprise for the both of us. However, I’m grateful for this blessing! My bf and I have been talking about the preparation for the baby and when it comes time for the delivery he’s going to be there (obviously) but once I leave the hospital he wants to return to work a few days later (which he works 8 or more hours a day, sometimes overnight). Because we are going to need money. But I had mentioned to him about both of us putting a set amount of money aside each check so we have money for the time we are both off work when the baby arrives. I also mentioned to him that I can go back home and get the help from my parents and sister but my parents live in a different state. He told me he doesn’t want to miss appointments, & he wants to be there to bring me to the hospital. He told me to ask my parents to come to our state and help out. (Both my parents are retired, but my dads a pastor and can’t just leave the church for a month or more to come help me) I just don’t want to do this alone when our son gets here! I want us to do this together!!! We are also remodeling our travel trailer (camper) so we can become full-time nomads (travel the country) by the time the babies born we want to have it finished. He would also find a job that was work from home like mine. So he can be there more & When it came time for us to leave we would both be Work from home. I just want to know if I’m over exaggerating or am I justified to feel the way I feel? I really want him to be here for me but apart of me feels like I’ll be doing this alone and with my parents help a little!

Morris Chestnut??.... So many people say my husband favor him so much. I thought it was pretty cool:)

I don’t really know how to feel

When you find out your husbands type Looks Nothing like you.. 😔 I just Don’t know what I’m feeling

Who does baby look like more Mom or dad?

2nd kid

Recently my partner and I have started talking about planning for the second kid. For background I come from a close knit family of 3 siblings with a single mom. I played with cousins my age during my childhood and still travel to see my grandparents at least yearly. We were on food stamps and my mom often worked 2 jobs. My mom has passed away, the siblings birth years are 1992, 1994, 1997 (me) and 1999. My partner has one sibling they are about 7 years apart, his parents are still together. They were able to rise up from lower class to middle class and he is not close with any of his family. He played with neighbor kids. Now for today, he has wanted one kid, ive wanted a large family but have compromised for 2 given our house size, the state of the world and him not wanting a lot. We had our daughter in '22, he decided we can have another. I started school for a possible remote job, ill be finished in 2-3 years. We decided we will try for another after my schooling. This will give them a nice age gap but still be close enough that they wont be distant. My nephews are pre teens and we have no cousins in our area. The rest of the siblings do not want kids. Now hes talking about how hes not sure he wants a second. When i told him i wasnt sure how i felt about it since i have always wanted a large family, he responded he has always wanted a nice house. He is a welder and makes good money, i currently work part time so i can stay focused on school. I'm not sure how to go about this. Its not like i dont want to work, i want to be the bread winner so he work on his own business. I just cant imagine life as an only child myself and want me daughter to have the type of relationships that i have with my siblings. Thanks for reading

Happy to be on here

Happy to celebrate with my Queen!!!! God will bless us and our bundle of joy!!!

Hey i got a question

Me and wife are going through a really bad patch but we’re trying to conceive and hit the ovulation window… definitely around the time now where he proud light come hopefully not we would love our own bundle of joy… but basically before the missing your period window off there any other early b signs of pregnancy I could look for

AITA For Leaving My Wife Alone at The Park

I (26m) am married to my wife (28f). I have a lot of issues with my mental health. I suffer from PTSD and dissociation. For people who may not know what dissociation is, it's kind of like I leave my own body. It's a result a severe trauma I endured when I was 15. I was hurt really badly by an older man when I was 15 years old. It caused me a lot of trauma and mental illness and sadly while he was punished in the court of law, I don't feel the justice system did me much justice. Anyway, my wife is very aware of my trauma and what happened when I was 15 years old. At first she was sympathetic but started saying I use my trauma as an excuse to be depressed and she feels most people fetishize their assault. So I stopped talking about it. Even in therapy. I just don't want to annoy anyoneMy wife went to hang out with friends for the weekend and asked me to pick her up. They had went to a park to see a mini music festival. However, where she told me to pickup was across the park from where she was and told me to text her and she would walk to me. I decided to just meet her at where she actually was and I see her and her friends at the same table with this man who hurt me all those years ago. My wife looked like she saw a deer when she saw me. She ran up to me and I asked why she was with him. She said I need to chill out and it's nothing like that. She told me some of her friends are friends with him so he is around sometimes and she didn't want to tell me because she didn't want me to freak out. I asked how could she hang out with someone who hurt me. She said it wasn't like she was hanging out with him. Her friends are friends with him and she's there for her friends. I said where they aware of what he a grown man did to me when I was 15. She said her friends believe people should have second chances no matter what they do. And she's not gonna argue with that. I just couldn't believe this. I would never do this to her. I even told her that. I would never hang out with someone who caused her so much pain and she lost it on me and said "I'm tired of hearing about this! It happened almost 11 years ago. I'm not gonna stop hanging out with my friends just because there is a guy there who did something horrible 10 years ago! What happened to you was horrible and nobody should ever have to go through that but my life doesn't revolve around your trauma!" I just tried to blink away years, got in my car, and left. My wife didn't expect me to do that. I honestly wasn't even thinking when I did that. I was on autopilot. My wife ended up walking home because her friends couldn't give her a ride and screamed at me that she had to walk home at night as a women. I don't remember all she was saying because I started to dissociate. My wife tells me I'm a jerk and I'm overreacting and need to grow up. I honestly don't know anymore. Am I the asshole

i need advice

so my husband and i have been married 4 yrs and have two kids together and our relationship hasnt always been great we have both done things behind each others back prior to getting married so u can imagine the trust issues we had/have last year we decided having social media was what was the issue due to lack of trust we always felt each other was up to something.. so we delete all socials for the past year. well yesterday our little one had his phone and swiped to the side and on iphone u can see his frequently used apps so i saw facebook and snapchat and i confronted him about it and he said he had it only bc he thought i had mine so thats why he downloaded it.. i told him i didnt have it and havent had it. so idk what to do now. (back when we did have it he had me blocked on everything) i have caught him insinuating he was a single man and have ppl screenshot him giving out his snapchat to girls on fb . so ladies what would yall doALSO we do live together so if i decide i dont want to be married to him anymore ik to file for divorce.. but before that idk how i would get him to leave the apartment he isnt on the lease but we are married. and he hasnt really left the apartment in the past week because he quit his job last week we share a car that is also mine.

@HeyThereWilders I Guess I Spoke Too Soon!

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I wanna cry.

Ever since I got married in the church my maritial life has been horrible. (2 yrs ago) we've been together since 2008. I have prayed so so so much for him and us. I cannot take it anymore. I think I want to separate. But again I know we are now together forever in God's eyes. I don't want to be confemned bc i ended up with someone else as I am only 31. I think I am just going to live by myself for the rest of my life. I need words of encouragement from those people who divorced and are now living happily by yourself.

Letting my feelings out

Any one has bad experiences living with in laws and how you manage to financially move out