September 2020 Birth Club

This group is for people and their baby / babies born in September 2020!

Creator: Glow

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No I do not miss pregnancy

I am seeing all of these posts about whether A. I miss being pregnantOrB. Are we already trying for another child NO and NO.But genuinely curious about who is answering yes. Please explain yourself.

No I do not miss pregnancy
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Last reply Jan 10, 2021

Ke

I definitely miss being pregnant even though I was nauseous and vomiting every day for 14 weeks. I miss my belly and all the kicks! He came 3 weeks early and the delivery was painful but quick. My husband and I were actually trying for Irish twins but my son is 4 months now but maybe we will get pregnant soon.

My baby’s first Christmas 🎄❤️🥺

My baby’s first Christmas 🎄❤️🥺
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Last reply Dec 20, 2020

Mo

Such a cute outfit!!! Adorable

Trying again ...

Anyone else on here currently trying for their next baby already? I didn’t think I’d want to start trying so fast but there we go ... I must be crazy 😂

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Last reply Dec 22, 2020

Si

We have 5 boys and all of our kids are close together! Our first two are 11 months apart and they are 5 and 4 and then we had our third and they were about two years apart so he is 2 and then our fourth we had at 11 months apart he is 15 months old and we just had our fifth five weeks ago 🥰💜 and it’s chaotic sometimes but also absolutely wonderful and amazing and I wouldn’t change it for the world! Also as crazy as it sounds wouldn’t mind if we got pregnant again. Motherhood is absolutely the best thing that’s ever happened to me ☺️❤️ so if you ask me I say go for it! We sure did!

Self Soothe Methods

My babe is 15 weeks and still can’t sleep on his own. He needs to be breastfed to sleep. How can I get him to sleep on his own? Would love to hear methods others have used.

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Last reply Dec 20, 2020

Tr

We bottle feed but near the end of the dead she would get drowsy enough we would substitute for a pacifier! Now when she gets tired and we give her a pacifier she will sleep from about 10pm until 5 or 6 am! But we let her lead it all as she was ready! This didn’t happen until she hit the 3 month mark.

Baby’s first Christmas

🥰🎄☃️🎁

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Last reply Dec 19, 2020

Breastfeeding rant

I’ve been exclusively breastfeeding since my baby was born and frankly I’m sick of it. I’m sick of waking up randomly with blocked milk ducts and sick of randomly developing milk blebs on my nipples and sick of sore nipples and sick of all the excruciating pain all that is causing. I just want my boobs to feel normal again and happily breastfeed my baby once and for all 😓 I’m willing to go through any pain it is for my baby but dammmnnnn man.

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Last reply Dec 28, 2020

Ba

On on my third and still have blocked ducts. I ended up talking to somebody at the hospital when I had my second and they recommended a lecithin supplement. It has helped a ton. Also, you will get really good at clearing those clogs quick - vibration, heat, shower, etc. And I agree with the other comments your boobs will never be the same. Softer and squishier. Don’t feel bad if you hate it. I don’t understand people who LOVE nursing. I’m like meh it’s not the most fun, I do it cuz I can and it’s better for baby but it is a pain in my ass. Good luck!

Baby fever

So I have an almost 3 month old baby boy (pic below because he's cute) and i love him to death but recently I gotten baby fever. Im trying to talk myself out of trying fot a 2nd baby because he was delivered via c-section and babies are alot of work and are expensive, but it's hard. In a way I'm not scared of the risks during pregnancy, I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to handle it emotionally and mentally and physically. Has anyone else had baby fever soon after your baby was born?

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Last reply Dec 21, 2020

Ph

I do. I have 4months old twin boys. And I am like maybe I should try for the girl and then am like what if I get twins again lol. I had a really easy pregnancy was high risk but went smooth.

3 Months old today

Can't believe my baby baby is 3 months old already! Definitely not rushing a thing this time around

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Last reply Dec 19, 2020

ev

Lately my little one sleeps 2 hours between feeding at night and is awake at 5am!

Embarrassing question

Does anyone feel like after giving birth, their urethra is like.. lower than it used to be? I'm not prolapsing or anything I don't think, but sex burns like hell, I do leak a little, and when I inspected down there I could see it way better than I was ever able to before. I see my gyno on the 30th, but was just curious if anyone else felt the same way after giving birth.

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Last reply Dec 19, 2020

Sa

Sorry I haven’t had this but a pelvic floor specialist might be a good idea to help you out.

Little Ones app

Have any of you tried the Little Ones sleep program? Did you have success?

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Last reply Dec 19, 2020

PRAISE THE LORD! 🙌🏻

My baby just slept for 10 and a half hours!! I feel like a new woman 😅🥰

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Last reply Dec 19, 2020

A

Lmao good for you mama!! I celebrate when my baby sleeps 5 hours at a time 🤣

Ya

She doesn’t love it but doesn’t hate it neither lol

Good sleeper gone bad!!!!

3 months and she generally used to sleep ok. She would nap for up to a 5 hr stretch during the day and I could accomplish ALOT. During the night it was 3 to 4 hrs at a time. Idk what the hell happened but she WILL not nap during the day longer than for 20 minutes at a time. Nights have been a hit or miss. Last night was great, she woke 2 times and went back to sleep fairly easily the night before was pure hell! Anyone has a good sleeper who has made a sudden change? Is it normal at the 3 month mark? Im going nuts, I have so much to do and she just wants to be held all day. She hates her carrier so wearing isn't really an option sigh. Help lol.

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Last reply Dec 22, 2020

Zo

I had a few problems with daytime naps but have been doing the 2hrs awake time = naptime for a good few days now and its helping, he’ll have around 45ish mins per nap and sometimes more if I’m lucky. I try to put him down sleepy with his dummy, stick on some white noise and pull the curtains shut and it seems to help. He’s still been good at night sleeping so far

Will it ever feel normal again 😭

Just did the do for the first time. Ouch. 😖😖 Now I don't wanna do it again for a long time. To be fair.. this kid was 10 1/2 lbs 😭 I'm so messed up down there.

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Last reply Dec 19, 2020

Sh

My baby was only 4 pounds 12 oz and even I’m still messed up down there 🥲

1 month to 3 months! 💙

Let’s see your comparison photos!!

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Last reply Dec 20, 2020

Br

1 month 💙3 months 💙

When to start baby food 🤷🏻‍♀️

I’m a ftm and I keep getting mixed info on when to start baby food. I’m not starting yet of course but my parents say 4 months, the in-laws said 3 and my friends say 6 months. Online is just as confusing as well. My baby is quite the hungry boy and looks to be interested as well but I don’t want to mess up his stomach. Anyone know when is the right time?

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Last reply Dec 22, 2020

Zo

Loads of baby food brands start at 4 months but do it when you’re comfortable to

Cereal

Has anyone given there baby cereal yet?

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Last reply Jan 14, 2021

Ch

We completely skipped cereal with our first and will for this one too. Our ped told us it wasn't necessary and just empty calories.

Extreme hair loss

Ok, my baby is 3 months and my hair loss is extreme at this point, is causing me anxiety and depression, it’s so bad that I have to wear a scarf on my head all day long because my hair gets everywhere, any one else going through this? How did you deal with it?, I always had a massive amount of hair but now is not even half of what I used to have, I will attach some pictures I lost all my front hairBlushing after a shower, and in the shower there was more.Hair from the shower

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Last reply Dec 23, 2020

Mi

Im in the same boat. Im still taking vitamins and I have two bald spots near my temples.