Not in the mood!!!! Help

My inlaws are throwing me a surprise baby shower today which i wasnt suppose to know but i heard someone made a comment about the food (thats all i know tho) but im not in the mood i am suppose to be ready by 3 but itz already 12:30 and im still in bed havent even taken a shower yet im just tired and its one of those days where i just want to cry and the fact that i totally hate my dress makes it worst i feel like a pumpkin in it but my husband loves it he went himself and bought it for me he told me we were going to go take pictures so i wouldnt think it was my shower today