Baby Shower/Registry HELP!

Hello Ladies!

I am 25 weeks, second baby, FIRST baby girl on both sides of the family. My mom is throwing me a shower and my Godmother also wants to throw a second shower with her friends so it'll be just a diapers/wipes shower.

My question is do I include registry info for the shower my mom is throwing, Or do I accept whatever gifts come my way and buy what we dont receive?

Ooor buy everything ourselves and do both showers diapers/wipes? Any alternative solutions? Thank you!