Finally had an orgasm from sex!
Thanks to lots of tips from you guys, and my very loving new SO I finally had my first orgasm from sex after 7 years of trying. Since you guys helped me so much, I thought I'd share how I finally got the O w/ whoever is still not quite there yet.
Before, I could only O when I did it myself alone. So this is what did it for me:
1. Being truly in love with my SO. My body knows when I'm not, and responds accordingly.
2. Have a SO that was not only dedicated to getting me to O, but also made me feel comfortable about telling him when I needed. He even offered to get me a sex toy (he didn't yet, but just the offer made me feel way more comfortable)
3. Reading tips here
4. Having him go down on me before sex (making my clit sensitive,) and then me going on top, and staying there for awhile. I kept on trying to use his pelvis bone for clitoral stimulation. It felt good, but I wasn't quite there until randomly right when I forgot got about it, it built up and happened. It also helped to take little few second breaks with him still inside me.
Keep trying, but make it fun instead of so much pressure! I promise it's not impossible.
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