Anyone else

Did anyone else have two weddings? Like my boyfriend is cambodian and we've talked about having a traditional wedding and having a cambodian marriage. And he wants to get married before him mom dies and I'm not 21 so I do t want a traditional wedding yet. Plus he hasn't proposed. But my question is did anyone else do that because of a different culture?

Some pictures to kind of see what it's like I don't know 100% yet if it's like this. A Cambodian wedding is from like $2000-$20,000. And then some American weddings I've seen some about $50,000 or more and that's with the dress with it. The traditional wedding would be a long while after the cambodian wedding