Boyfriend with his head in his ass

I've been in a relationship for a year and a bit with my boyfriend. (We are both 16) and for the first year he treated me like a princess and made me feel like his first priority. Now this year he has become friends with boys from different Year levels and now has catch ups with them almost every day then every now and then when his not doing something we will catch up. He goes to catch ups where there are other girls sometimes and I know he wouldn't do anything but he never invited me because his friends would find it weird if I was the only from my year level. We have had fights about his catch ups a lot because i want him to start trying harder to see me. A couple days ago we had a massive fight and I legit needed to beg for another chance. He now makes me feel like if I say 1 more thing about anything he does he will break up with me. It hurts because I used to have some guys friends and stuff like that and I knew it made him feel very uncomftable to I made sure I was a bit more distant from them because he meant so much to me. And when I go away there are guys there and he is always messaging them when I'm there to kinda check up on me. Now that it's in his shoes he thinks it's right to go to these catch ups where the girls are there. He says he goes to see his friends and doesn't even talk to them and I trust him but for some reason still makes me feel uncomftable. I don't catch up with my friends as much as him I see them about 3 times every holidays, and he sees his friends every night. He says that we both have different social lives and I told him I know I should change and not care as much when he sees his friends and I promised I would change. I then asked if he could do some stuff for me like plan a day for me like he does for his friends and not go to every catch up that the girls are at. And all he said was I've already tried hard and it doesn't work. I don't believe that he has because I've been begging him every night and been trying so hard to make us happen but it seems like he would give up really easily and if he tried as hard as me we would be perfect again